Post-op sexuality: Trying a jack-off sleeve with trans phalloplasty

I am so intrigued with everything that will feel good to me now a year after phalloplasty. The time of healing is done. Now it is a phase of self-discovery!! Hooray, haha. I am finally getting used to sitting down to use the toilet, lifting up my balls and cradling my penis with my left hand.

It feels good to build routines. We probably have thousands of routines with our bodies that we never think about until they’re thrown off. I mean, I wiped away my pee around my labia a certain way my whole life without thinking about it. Now, after having gender affirming phalloplasty with no urethral lengthening or vaginectomy, I get to sit to pee and go through the routine of lifting the balls to pat the perineum dry. I noticed last week I’m starting to do it without the feeling of newness and something different. Even good change takes an adjustment. It’s coming along.

So… On the sexual front: I went to a sex shop on my own. I didn’t really know what it this jelly thing was for sure, but it seemed like something a dick would like. Silly me, of course JO means jack off. Therefore, I have a JO sleeve! Yay. Ha, omg, I was so uncharacteristically shy afraid to ask about it.

I got it home and started exploring. First realization, there’s a hole at the end, so I think it’s designed to be used like a foreskin and brought up and down the shaft. Or maybe you just fuck into it? Also, is this homoerotic or what, to fuck inside a crystal jelly dick as a sleeve?

Second realization after lubing up and slipping my penis in, who the heck’s balls are this huge and low! Not mine. I don’t think my balls are that unusual in dimension? I think it’s meant to be a ball stretcher. Yet, while mine could be squeezed in the pouch a little, they’d pop right back out. Pretty cool if your anatomy would work for it, esp since there’s a space for electrical leads. Well, at least the shaft stroker section still worked.

Not designed for trans men, this Jack off sleeve appears to be designed for donkey balls.

I mean, don’t get me wrong. It felt good. But did it feel great? Eh. Hand alone probably feels better. I’m still glad I could have at least tried the experience. It’s like that pastry in the work break room. It’s not a great pastry. But it’s right there, and youre alone… JO– onward!

I think I learned I like the hand best to target the pleasure and pressure exactly where I like it, rather than all over, like the sleeve ridges do. It possible probably helps me get off to be able to see my penis while giving it/myself pleasure. Overall, I’d categorize this like… Fun! But not the most fun. 🙂 10/10 glad I tried it. So it’s like ftm-compatible, could work for some people. Not exactly the same way tho– the tip hole they imagine you putting your glans through is too small for me.

Maybe one day way down the line I’ll try a Fleshlight, but I think the reasons I didn’t love this one would be the same. I like to see and touch my dick flesh when I’m jacking off. To thine own self be true!

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