Every day, I see questions in trans medical support groups with trans masc ppl agonizing over selecting their penis size. The grief about selecting the right size is completely unnecessary. You don't really get 100% say over it-- you can express a general wish or goal, but the donor site's network of arteries and nerves… Continue reading Phalloplasty: Picking your penis size
So, with current medical science, they can't make us a ftm phalloplasty foreskin. If foreskin is a deal breaker for you, you probably should look into metoidioplasty or perhaps consider skipping glansplasty. For me, I really wanted a foreskin, but it's just not how my apples became a pie. Therefore, like any good trans person,… Continue reading Adventures in faux foreskins for phalloplasty
Q: I heard of some transmen getting Alloderm put inside to complete that goal. Has anyone done it and willing to explain who was their surgeon, how spaced out were your bottom surgeries before doing the Alloderm? Does it benefit getting it for size and girth. Any, complications? Does insurance cover it? A: Hi. There… Continue reading What is AlloDerm? Should I get it?
My partner took this photo and sent it to me. I loved the way my ballsack looks from the backside! Nice and long. For the record, I think the hypertrophic scarring ladder on the underside of my penis looks RAD. I don't see it as an imperfection. It looks like I had ritual scarification or… Continue reading Rear view, ballsack & phalloplasty
Ahem. I fucked my partner in the ass with my new dick in earnest for the first time, and it was glorious. I mean, I have dabbled in topping anally since I had phalloplasty, but it was more in the perfunctory test-drive sort of way. This was the first time it was organic, heated, passionate,… Continue reading Topping anally post-op with the pump erectile device
Trans athleticism is not super my thing, but I do like cruising on a bike. A lot of people have asked me: Do your balls or penis get in the way when biking, post-op phalloplasty and scrotoplasty? 1. The penis. All healed, I wear my penis upward toward the band to bike, as many men… Continue reading Riding a bike with balls!
@Enbytex, thank you for posting so much in your blog. I continue to be grateful for how much of your experience you share. I am also so happy for you! In your blog you write that you had fat injected into your arm. How did that go? Great! I had the fat grafting around 8… Continue reading Q/A with S. on fat grafting, Implant basics.
Coloplast Titan One Touch implanted 3 months ago. You squeeze the balls to get hard, and you push the button to get soft again. It's much easier after you're healed a few weeks and the swelling goes down like this. It isn't weird to get hard by squeezing my balls, since people get hard doing… Continue reading VIDEO 1.5 minutes, getting hard and soft again post-op phalloplasty
Modified Norfolk glansplasty by Devin O'Brien-Coon. I give you my applause, Devi. There aren't so many photos of glansplasties out there. I think there are some other techniques, but Norfolk is the most common. My urethra here is tattooed; my functional urethra is in the natal position perineally, by my choice. 🙂
In 2010, I was pregnant with my second child. I was out of my mind with dysphoria, but information was much harder to find. I talked with my conservative Catholic husband about starting T. Well, that went nowhere. I had that second child, and my midwife recommended I get a Mirena IUD. I disobeyed my… Continue reading My transition timeline: How my body came together