My name starts with “enby” because I am nonbinary. That means that I do not fit in easy classifications of masculinity or femininity. I don’t want to. I don’t identify as a man or a woman. I’m just me.
I enjoy looking feminine on some days, like a feminine woman. I do not want my penis to show in my feminine clothing while in public. For me it is a matter of safety for one and aesthetics for another.
Guess what! That means I get to figure out tucking with a penis from ftm phalloplasty!
I have not used anything like a gaff, because there is delicate blood flow to the phallo dick which I don’t want to damage. Regular panties work alright, since my penis is long enough to wrap around my balls toward my bottom. You just want to make sure the crotch of the panties is wide enough to provide support and not drop out your dick.
I found tucking comfortable enough for a cursory experience, but I still have more experimenting to do. I have found some clingy boy-short kinda panties have enough stretch to hold things in place, but not all of them. The point is the aesthetic, and you usually don’t want the aesthetic of a sheer dress disrupted by the glanstacular outline of a 6″ flaccid penis. I mean, there’s a time and place for everything, and this was neither 🙂
So for people who wonder if you can tuck after bottom surgery? From my experience, absolutely.