The Tip Jar

Something new on this blog: I ask you humbly to help.

To get straight to the point, it costs money to keep a site like Phallo Diary online safely. If everyone who found this blog useful gave just a little, Phallo Diary would be secure for years to come. Won’t you put a tip in the jar?

When I was still using the free version of this blog, I did not realize how unsafe I was making myself. When bad things started happening, I had to lock it down and regroup. I got letters asking if I would please make it available again. I had to invest cash for site upgrades, now with monthly and annual bills.

Transgender surgery experience information at this level of detail is hard to find. I have put years of my life into sharing vulnerably, for the benefit of others. If you find it useful, please consider making a donation of whatever you can to protect and sustain this kind of work.

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Bounce this club. Troublemakers, OUT.

Be my bouncer– Consider gifting $1 a month for a year. If the vulnerability and effort put into this blog has helped you or someone you know~

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You’re my angel,
big hugs for your help.


It costs money to host this blog with strong security. Donate $5 a month toward site expenses. Consider gifting for a year, if you believe this blog is valuable as a resource for the community.


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Papi, you take such
good care of me.

Papi does not want this to be any rag tag site! Donate $25 a month toward site expenses. Consider gifting for a year, if you have the means and believe this blog offers significant value.


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